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what to do  

angel222006 64F
185 posts
5/11/2016 9:05 pm
what to do


been on here for awhile looked at many profiles and 1 still gets my attention very much but does not seem he has any interest in me maybe because im to old or not small enough I do say hi to him now and then but nothing so question is I guess I move on?

DrkDik4U 52M  
115 posts
5/11/2016 9:26 pm

A question is, Do I move on? I think you answered your own question. Don't make it so personal. As you said, you've never spoken to him so you don't know what his deal is. But don't make it or take it personally. Best of luck to you sweetie.


angel222006 replies on 5/11/2016 10:09 pm:
agree thankyou gl to u also

soapy904 69M
28 posts
5/11/2016 9:44 pm

Keep looking. Good Luck to you.


EeseRider 66M
187 posts
5/11/2016 10:12 pm

I know the feeling babe...he's just not into you


angel222006 replies on 5/12/2016 8:47 pm:
thats ok but for me its so hard to find a guy who lives close to me and has some things of interest to me and likes fluffy women lol

BrownEyedBBW 55F  
8831 posts
5/11/2016 10:28 pm

Succinctly, yes.

Imagine if a guy who turned you off kept sending you messages, would you like that? Probably not.

Do unto others and all that jazz.


notsure1949 75M
10657 posts
5/12/2016 5:59 am

keep on searching, what was the name of that movie, he's not into you, so what, short should not matter and you are not too old


aman4u1962a 61M
1979 posts
5/12/2016 11:21 am

Before I suggest you move on like everyone else I have some questions for you:
1. Is he a standard member or a gold member?
2. How have you been "saying hi" to him? via email? in a chat room?
3. How long has he been a member on the site?
4. How frequently does he sign in?

If this man is a standard member and you've been sending him emails he cannot read them. If he is a relative newbie on this site he may not have figured out the different ways around the system for standard members to be able to respond to you. Maybe you can try to hotlist him to see if he hotlists you back. That would give you an indication if he has interest.

However, if this guy is a gold member who is on the site frequently then I would say it is time for you to move on as he obviously has no interest in you.

FYI... If we lived closer and you contacted me, I would definitely have an interest and find a way to get back to you.


angel222006 replies on 5/12/2016 1:06 pm:
ty and yea he is a standard member but I know he is way out of my league but that's ok I will not give up trying to find what im looking for

AvonEng357 71M
82 posts
5/13/2016 8:00 am

Good Luck to you on finding "your match"
Being a std member can be a pain in the a__.
I have chatted with other members and some say that they think that AdultFriendFinder has contacted them with bots to try and get them to buy a membership again.
I think you look cute and you have a great smile. You don't have a problem sweetie.
Note: I think I am even having trouble sending instant messages on this site so I would not worry too much about the one but concentrate on the next one.


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