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JigglesgigglesBl 68 F
29  questions
Opening Mail.. - 6/2/2008

Over the weekend I have had a problem..I can go anyplace on the site..No problem..But, When I go to the mail page..It freezes on me..I know a couple weeks back some were having problems with opening mail..Can anyone tell me what you did to get this problem fixed.. Thanks, Jig

15 response(s), 6 votes
rm_19harley86 67 M
19  questions
Blocked - 6/2/2008

If you are "honest" in your intentions, how do you get "someone" to belive you?

16 response(s), 24 votes
rm_bowlofchili 59 M
4  questions
Help! - 6/2/2008

What should I do to my profile to get more interest for the ladies out there. I joined to find hook ups not dead ends again.

13 response(s), 16 votes
pornloser 42 M
1  question
loogie sex - 6/1/2008

i used to like watching adult films, but lately i keep buying these movies that are literally so disgusting that i am not sure whether they are supposed to be arousing, or whether they are supposed to be some kind of gruesome sideshow.

they tend to start out with a dude forcing his rod down a woman's throat by tugging her head forward, his intention clearly being to make her face ...

13 response(s), 24 votes
Zane492 66 M
1  question
Sexual Preferences - 6/1/2008

OK, we all know this is primarily a sex site with boundaries, considerations and limitations. So do we ask early on what are the sexual preferences (likes, dislikes, do's and dont's, etc.) of the other(s) involved? Or do we go through a lot of time and mental energy and drawing our own conclusions what the other(s) like or expect? A penny for your thoughts.

38 response(s), 23 votes
SexiLuvinGirl 61 F
81  questions
Just How Kinky Are You? - 6/1/2008

It's called the Hotlanta Kink Test.... (type it in your browser) 100 questions to find out just how kinky you are?

I scored 512 - Kinkier Than Most

48 response(s), 34 votes
rm_gowildsafely 42 F
4  questions
How do you find a good lover? - 6/1/2008

No doubt, I love sex and am very hopen minded. I have no desire to find a "real" relationship right now, but I still need regular, constant, heart pounding sex.

But this is where my problem ocurrs. I can't seem to find what I'm looking for.

Someone who's readily available, ready, nicely hung, experiemental, friendly, kind, blah blah blah...

I seem to find those who ...

11 response(s), 21 votes
FunCouple403 59 C
1  question
When camming, how do you respond to incoming messages? - 6/1/2008

Does anyone know how you actually respond to the incoming messages when you are camming?

We get incoming messages, then try to answer them, but then they disappear, and we are never sure if they made it to the intended person. Tnen we never get a reply back. It seems like it's just not working right. Is there a trick to this that we just don't get?

Any suggestions?

...

7 response(s), 14 votes
SexiLuvinGirl 61 F
81  questions
Your Favorite Sexy Quotes Are? - 6/1/2008

A few of my favorite quotes are:

"Good sex is like good Bridge. If you don't have a good partner, you'd better have a good hand."

-- Mae West



"Fifty percent of the women in this country are not having orgasms. If that were true of the male population, it would be declared a national emergency."

-- Margo St. James

"As she lay there dozing ...

14 response(s), 12 votes
rm_Lidius_78 36 M
1  question
standard mail venting - 6/1/2008

what is the point of standard members having mail if we cant check the damn thing, I have gotten to letters from some one asking a simple question and when I click the subject line it goes to the billing page not allowing me to read the mail

anyone else having this problem or am I just doing something wrong?

11 response(s), 16 votes
Iwantamansbutt2 55 M
18  questions
Are gas prices affecting your hookups? - 6/1/2008

For those of you who were thinking about driving a long distance to meet someone ...

Is the price of gas putting a damper on your efforts?

21 response(s), 29 votes
rm_WEEBIEnME 60 C
9  questions
HOW DO YOU FIX A MISUNDERSTANDING? - 6/1/2008

We met a really great couple on line and everything was perfect until I threw a wrench into the works. They very much wanted to meet and us likewise them.Around June 19 they stated that they really wanted to meet.I sent them a reply that I was going to be out town from the 22nd until the 26th.HERES where I think things fell apart.On the 21st they again said how much they wanted to meet and I ...

15 response(s), 24 votes
SexiLuvinGirl 61 F
81  questions
Dirty Talk In Bed? Sexy As Hell Or Not For Me - 6/1/2008

Do you like it when your partner talks dirty to you or do you find it a turn off?

Hmmm.... TALK DIRTY TO ME! I THINK IT'S SEXY AS HELL!

37 response(s), 41 votes
SexiLuvinGirl 61 F
81  questions
Kissing? Kissing Likes And Dislikes? - 6/1/2008

I love to kiss and I consider myself a very passionate kisser. I recently met a man from AdultFriendFinder that claimed he was a great kisser and loves to kiss. SURPRISE SURPRISE SURPRISE

I never said anything to him, but did relay some subtle hints in a cute kinda way, by kissing him just like he kissed me. I understand that we all have our own ways of doing things, but DAMN!

I ...

16 response(s), 28 votes
mutual2007 65 M
15  questions
warnings and disclaimers - 6/1/2008

While browsing some profiles this morning I kept seeing a quasi-legal notice in the profile. Is this something new? Did I miss the memo? Are outside sites using our profiles for profit? Or is it just paranoia? One of the profiles strongly suggested that everyone post this in their profile?

WARNING: Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - ...

9 response(s), 24 votes
whiteonly2006 43 C
7  questions
older or younger - 6/1/2008

Is it better to be with older more experience couples or younger more trainable couples

18 response(s), 19 votes
rm_cajay2400 54 F
2  questions
Profile pictures - 6/1/2008

I was wondering what the general concensus was on how you feel about profile pictures with the person having sex with someone...Cock pictures are ok, but I don't really prefer seeing them buried in someones pussy or ass. Is it just me???

13 response(s), 22 votes
woodluv2pleseu2 58 M
88  questions
Where are the numbers coming from? - 6/1/2008

I have read many times over that the men outnumber the woman on this site. I don't doubt that is true. I have seen folks say it is a 10 to 1 or a 15 to 1 ratio. I really don't think that Charlie Eeps could determine the exact ratio. Mort of us are aware that there are way too many "dead" files here Ones that are marked as not visiting in three months, that have been so for over eight months. We ...

8 response(s), 10 votes
rm_F22Raptor108 43 M
1  question
Ladies, your opinion please..... - 6/1/2008

Okay, let's say that us men are looking around for a woman for whatever. Is there a certain way to send you a message that will initiate a response from you? I know that you probably want to hear different things depending on what you're here for. I mean, I'm sure you wouldn't want a message saying how nice your "nether regions" are and what we'd like to do to them when all you're on ...

12 response(s), 18 votes
Misbehavn2 55 C
37  questions
get to know some one - 5/31/2008

so most of you have seen this post

( got to tell you if you meet someone on this site and they agree to meet at a motel to have sex or home or were ever you choose to do it, this is like getting the tension out of they way you know you're going to fuck plain and simple fucking A, great, now you can get to know that person you don't have that(oh i want to fuck this chick or dude in the ...

5 response(s), 17 votes
rm_upnrthfun1 64 M
3  questions
Why show interest if theyre not going to follow up... - 5/31/2008

I have to wonder why people show interest in you, ask to chat, etc and then disappear when you try to reciprocate. I know theres a bunch of answers for that.. just venting I guess...

8 response(s), 19 votes
KCCougarClub 52 G
1  question
Fakes, flakes and no shows….. - 5/31/2008

Question for the ladies and couples. After all your chatting, screening and maybe even a phone conversation….. What percentage of single guys in your experience either flake out within two hours of a “real life meeting” or just don’t show up at all?

19 response(s), 15 votes
welike2screw3 54 C
15  questions
Flirts - 5/31/2008

Our question is why cant we delete flirts that are 100's to 1000's of miles away when ya know there is no chance of a meet..why flirt someone that is that far when ya know ya aint goin to meet???...especially if ya read our profile???

16 response(s), 27 votes
azdg274 50 M
2  questions
Getting her to Swallow - 5/31/2008

My spouse will give me oral but wont swallow what can I do to make the taste of my semen better for her?

31 response(s), 29 votes
Cormac57 50 C
19  questions
What makes a purse worth $8000? - 5/31/2008

I was just watching "The Devil wears Prada", and it started me wondering. What makes a purse worth $8000? For that matter, what makes a pair of jeans worth $800? When did this country which was founded on the fact that we didn't want anyone to tell us what to believe decide to let these "fasionistas" tell us what our clothing was worth? Only 100 years ago, when a cobbler made a pair of shoes, he ...

28 response(s), 20 votes
WildAssIndian 42 F
1  question
Female Squirters - 5/31/2008

How many women out there have the ability to squirt? I'm curious to know...

33 response(s), 42 votes
SouthGaMale46 69 M
1  question
Anal orgasm? - 5/31/2008

This is for the ladies that enjoy anal. Do you have an orgasm from anal? Is so, where do you feel it? Does it come from the anal area, ,, or is it just because it is so close to the vagina area.

Second question to all ladies--Do you do it, ,, just to please him??

4 response(s), 15 votes
_JKH_ 69 M
454  questions
Milka Duno is hot??? - 5/31/2008

Any of you watch the Indy 500? Is driver Milka Duno (a 36 year old ex-model) hot or not?

You can type her name in on your pc and see pictures of her.

What about the other two gals in the Indy 500? Fisher and Patrick?
...

15 response(s), 36 votes
SexPleasure59 51 M
17  questions
Very confused statement - 5/31/2008

A woman told me last tuesday...Her statement was confused for me. SEE THE STATEMENT BELOW:



I LOVE YOU, BUT I AM NOT IN LOVE WITH YOU. I JUST WANT YOU AS MY BEST FRIEND AND LOVER.



WHAT IS YOUR IMPRESSIVE INTERPRETATION OF THAT ?

28 response(s), 28 votes
needingtoservice 60 M
2  questions
Disappearing pics - 5/30/2008

I'm not on AdultFriendFinder all that much anymore so I'm not sure if this was brought up already, but my pics seem to have disappeared. Any ideas as to what may have happened? Did they "improve" anything? It's just my face shots but I'd like to know what happened to them.

4 response(s), 8 votes